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2017年3月28日星期二

Decision to your future……


There is some of the student just graduate from their school.

There might be so confused to them……Ermm, I'm so sure about it, there must so confused about it.

Because I'm the one that who had the experience about this, and also the friend that beside me and have graduate for several years.

For my friend, although year has passed, but they still can't get the target or something there is meaningful to do.

Although they already start working, but they still confused, helplessness, crush, and scared……

Nobody can tell them answer, and there also no one can give them the answer.

They feel helplessness is because of they can't see what going on in their future, the future of them is muddy.

So they work and just wait for the chance. But is there the chance will run into you without your strive?

There's the answer of course "No!"

I have the experience about this, before I try hard, before I become brave, there is nothing I am.

I just work and work and don't stop working and just cry because of hopeless.

I compare friends together with me, feel so inferiority, I just think that why I'm so idiot, why there look like I have nothing can do.

So I tell myself, "You're idiot! Really useless!"

What the negative I have? Haha……

This really ridiculous, right?

But one day, I was awakened, it's really look like I'm so useless, but there is just because of myself.

I haven't try to anything! So that's why I look useless!

"Nothing I try, then nothing I can." This is the answer!

After you try, you can see the difference, you can see your own result!

When you feel lose, look at me, I still fight for my future, although there the result is not perfect, but there is the best result for me.

I fight with you now! So how can you be in the company of others now feel afraid and lonely?

There is what I want to tell you, "Don't be scared, I'm here."

For me, the answer to my future is "Don't be scared just be brave."

You must try something you haven't try, you must brave to try anything, although there is not the thing you like.

You can't just march on the spot, and close yourself in your space.

Go out from the door, don't be lazy, don't be scared, although there is really really terrible, but you must be brave and remember to bring up your hope.

If your life is start without hope, and there is not a real life.

What you want to do, just make it!

You are more strong than you think!

"Nothing you try, nothing you can!"

"Don't be scared just be brave!"

"Don't be shy you are strong!"

Be position please, the world is not end, you still have a year, two years, five, ten, or maybe fifteen to try it!

There might be one is suit with you, believe to yourself!

"Yes, I can!"

"Sure, I can!"

"Sure, I can did it!"

"Yes, I did it!"

You are more strong than you think!

Bless you……

2017年3月3日星期五

人生里,从来没有“绝对”……


还记得小小时候的我,总有一个小小幸福感,因为我觉得我有一个特别幸福的家庭。

那时的我还小,可是我记得学校总会颁发所谓的模范生奖状。

对于“模范”这二字我很陌生,我甚至不是非常能了解它的意思,“模范”究竟是什么意思呢?

思来想去的,对于“模范”二字,我只是想到,他就代表着最好的,最好的“模范生”所以他得到了老师的称赞,似乎所有人都会很羡慕那位得奖的模范生。

那时的我想着,对于“模范生”这一词这一奖状,我真的一点都不羡慕,可是我总认为我有个令人羡慕的家庭。

我的家庭,一个幸福又美满的家庭,虽然妈妈偶尔会对我很凶可是她却会为我做非常漂亮的裙子让我穿。

我还有一个很严厉的爸爸,他对我要求总是很高,他早出晚归,以前我总会闹着情绪不要睡觉就是要等爸爸回来,甚至会闹脾气一定要爸爸隔天早上带我去草场玩耍。可是每次晚上无理取闹所换来的承诺,每每到了早上却总是落得一场空……

虽然如此,可是他们两位非常恩爱,我称他们为“模范夫妻”。

每每说到我家里的二位,我总是很引以为傲,我甚至不明白,为何我一直从朋友那里得知他们父母一直吵架?

在我的观念里,夫妻就是很恩爱很甜蜜的一对,他们总不会吵架,也不会大声怒吼对方。

所以我家里绝对有个让人羡慕的“模范夫妻”,而我有个让人羡慕的“模范家庭”。

可当我逐渐长大,我却发现这一对“模范夫妻”其实也藏着了一些“模范夫妻”所不会做的一些事。

而我这个让人羡慕的“模范家庭”在某一天的一瞬间里瞬间崩塌。

他们互相吵闹、有时甚至无理取闹、他们威胁着对方、甚至互相责骂对方。

在那一刻,我突然发现我的家并不那么让人羡慕了;我突然发现我的家并不那么“模范”了;我突然发现这一对夫妻甚至不能算是一对“模范夫妻”。

我原以为我会呆在一个幸福的“模范家庭”里成长,有些事情,或许我的一生里并不会有着像连续剧里头的那些情节。

可我高估了我自己……

这个世界从来没有绝对。

我没有绝对的幸福,可我也没绝对的不幸。

我没有绝对的人生,也没绝对的全毁。

我没有绝对的快乐,但也没绝对的悲哀。

这个世界上从来没有绝对。

我原以为毕业后我绝对会选择了我的梦想,可我没想到我却选择了另外一个。

我原以为某些事情我绝对不会放下,可是我却选择了把他遗忘。

我原以为我会不再坚持,但我却一次又一次的继续了下去。

这一个没有绝对的人生,或许让我变得很复杂,它甚至慢慢一步一步的摧毁着我。

我所经历的某一些事,或许并不那么如我所愿,可是很感谢这一些事,让我变得更加成熟。

我懂得这个世界没有绝对的幸福,所以我学会了珍惜。

我懂得某些当下无法直接保存,所以我会偶尔的回味过去的片段给自己打打气。

我懂得我不会永远的不幸,所以我会选择克服。

我懂得没有绝对的陪伴,所以我必须开始学习独立靠自己。

尽管一切并不那么“绝对”,可是我绝对相信,未来的路还很长,我还有很多事情必须得独自完成独自面对。

所以此时此刻的我,加油吧!一切会更好的!

Bless you……